Is that a keepsake? Part 1: How old is your child?

What is a keepsake? By definition it is something kept or given to be kept as a memento.

In the homes of our clients, Gretchen and I find boxes of keepsakes. Our clients say, "I'm keeping this for my daughter or son." Our next question is, "How old is your daughter or son?"

Wondering what we would advise you to do? Answer these 3 questions:

1. How long will the child continue to live in my house?

2. At what age will I expect to give the keepsakes to the child?

3. Who is making the decision about the keepsakes?

First of all, you must consider space. If you are collecting items at a rate of 1 box per year, you could have 18 boxes of keepsakes before the child departs for college. We suggest that you limit the space for items to the child's room.

Second, consider a realistic time for passing keepsakes along. Most children will be in their mid to late 20s before they settle in a place and are able receive, use, store or honor keepsakes. 

Lastly, who decides what goes into the box? If you are making the decisions, then most likely they are your keepsakes. Your keepsakes should be honored or stored in your space. Involve your children in the decision-making process of what to keep. If children do prize the items stored, they will not have a connection and may not want them after all. 

~Amy 

Easily Made Bed

Use a duvet!

The best way to keep your bed made is to have an easily made bed.  Try a European style duvet or comforter cover.  In combination with a fitted sheet, all you need is a down or down alternative comforter and a cover that coordinates with the fitted sheet. No top sheet or blankets are needed.  You can even use an older patterned comforter that you are tired of because the cover hides it. In the morning it takes one tug on each side of the bed to get it made. Throw on the pillows and your done. 

Great for kids too!

This is a particularly good idea for young children.  Any chores they can do themselves, helps you, and positively impacts their self esteem.

Finding sheet sets that have coordinating duvet or comforter covers can be tricky.  Go online for best results.  LL Bean, The Company Store and Pottery Barn Kids are good resources.

Making your bed will take two minutes in the morning but can make you feel better all day. Getting an easy task done, starts your day with a feeling of accomplishment, and can set the tone for the rest of your day.